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  • no fear

Our Deepest Fear

In his 1994 inaugural speech, Nelson Mandela said: Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate, our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves: who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented and fabulous? Actually, who are you NOT to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small doesn't serve the world. ...

By |2021-09-11T10:27:07+10:00September 18th, 2005|SINGLE DADS, Children, FAITH|0 Comments
  • no contact

Sometimes I Just Need to Switch Off

Well here it is, Saturday morning, and Warwick rang me for my article and I had nothing prepared. I was wandering around a shopping centre not particularly looking for anything, just in a bit of a daze. You see, sometimes things just get the better of me, and sometimes I just switch off. An interview I had recorded with Southern Cross Ten State Focus was just aired today, which was just ...

By |2021-09-01T18:32:46+10:00September 11th, 2005|SINGLE DADS, Children, FAIRNESS & JUSTICE|0 Comments
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Good-bye

(A goodbye letter written by a mate.) Dear Jane, Even though it will probably take you only five minutes to read this, if you read it at all, it took me a long time to write it. It also took a lot of courage to speak my mind and my heart. I hope you don’t see this as an attack on you, it’s not. Forgive me for my anger, it’s necessary. ...

By |2021-09-06T14:10:01+10:00July 31st, 2005|SINGLE DADS, FAITH|0 Comments
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Delivering Dad Back to His Children

Wow, what a few weeks. Parkinson's Taskforce Release of suggested reforms, Four Corners, Fatherhood Forum 05, The Lonefathers Conference, the Attorney General's release of suggested reforms. Receiving a beautiful plaque from the Fatherhood Forum in Parliament House for our DIDs work.  My son telling me he is proud of me, my daughter sending me an email of how wonderful she thinks I am, doing the work I do. That she loves ...

By |2021-09-01T13:24:31+10:00July 3rd, 2005|SINGLE DADS, Children, Dads|0 Comments
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Delivering Dads Back to Their Children

In the coming weeks and months, we as mothers, fathers, children, grandparents and families await the Government’s answers to the proposed reforms within Family Law and within the Child Support Scheme. We have been waiting patiently, even though we have been experiencing the very same thing this grandmother (below) so graciously describes. We as responsible fathers have been supporting our children, and yet are denied the right to have a relationship ...

By |2021-09-01T17:58:26+10:00June 19th, 2005|Children, FAIRNESS & JUSTICE, SINGLE DADS|0 Comments
  • male suicide epidemic

Men’s Suicide – Tragedy of Our Nation

Today, the Sydney paper carried a story of a well-known identity, Rene Rivkin, who suicided weeks after splitting from his wife of 32 years. It was front-page news in most of the major papers. A local newspaper here carried a similar sad story of death. It was a well-known local radio announcer here. The newspaper here failed to say what had happened, only that the death was considered not suspicious. We, ...

By |2021-09-01T13:24:47+10:00May 8th, 2005|SINGLE DADS, MENS HEALTH|0 Comments
  • father and son

So Little Time

Tonight is the start of the school holidays; I am allowed to pick up my son.  I feel extremely emotional about this, because I know only too well what it feels like when these times come for men who are deprived of the opportunity to spend time with their little ones. It took a court order to get to this point. What a shame, what a shame on this society, that ...

By |2021-09-06T14:23:53+10:00April 18th, 2005|SINGLE DADS, Children|0 Comments
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Divorce – Find Solace in God

It is not the actual divorce that hurts families. It is the pain of finding guilt in one another as divorcing couples. The fighting, the yelling, the attacking of one another's character is what causes trauma in children and friends. Some people’s mistake is to either marry the wrong person or think they have married the wrong person. The problem then so often lies in couples trying to blame the other ...

By |2021-09-11T12:01:39+10:00December 26th, 2004|SINGLE DADS, FAITH, FAMILIES|0 Comments
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Christmas – A Lonely Time for Single Dads

The Attorney General has released a discussion paper on Family Law Reform. Take the time, read it and put a submission in to: www.ag.gov.au Think about parallel parenting. Why can't it work here? We are coming up to Christmas. Many dads won't be seeing their kids for Christmas -- someone else may be handing out their presents from under the tree this year. While you are having Christmas dinner or while you ...

By |2021-05-21T19:11:26+10:00December 12th, 2004|SINGLE DADS, FAIRNESS & JUSTICE|0 Comments
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Child Support and Deadbeat Dads – Myth Versus Fact (Part 2)

(continued from part 1) The next question then becomes, why doesn't this hard core group just pay up? Well of course, just as there are some taxpayers who will go to any lengths to avoid paying taxation, there will always be some who will adopt a similar attitude towards payment of child support. It is an unfortunate facet of human nature. But there are also wider issues involving such things as ...

By |2021-09-11T19:25:00+10:00September 5th, 2004|SINGLE DADS, FAIRNESS & JUSTICE|0 Comments
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