My Father Always Said…

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April 14, 2026

A short pencil is better than a long memory.Dan Mathis - A Short Pencil
– Daniel Hearnsberger Mathis (19 April 1921 — 22 February 1991)

My father’s maxim was a bit unabashed, but Daddy had a sense of humour as well as a sense of wisdom. If I write something down, I am more apt to remember it. If I forget it, I can refer to my scribbles.

I am a list-maker; if something is not on my list of things to do, it probably will not get done. What’s more, I always record debits in my chequebook and reconcile them with the bank statement at the end of the month. This leads me to his next quotation:

A man with no money has no business leaving town,” Dad would say.

I ignored this advice when I hitchhiked to California as a teenager – and lost ten pounds. Nowadays, I don’t even consider a weekend trip without a financial pillow.

It’s not important to like what you do,” Dad would say, “It’s important that you do it.

I think of this when I’m faced with an unpleasant task: a plumbing chore or yardwork. Then I just rear on back and “git ’er done.”

Back in the Great Depression of the 1930s, it probably was not as important to like what you do; jobs were in such scarce supply, you were lucky to have a livelihood. But as regards a 21st-century profession, I think it IS important to like what you do.

If you like your work, it’s not work.” That’s my motto.

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Don’s life revolves around the many poetry circles in South Texas. His poems have been published in a hundred periodicals and broadcasted on TV and radio. Don has written news and reviews for various media and countless editorials about fatherhood. His political correspondence has prompted personal replies from George W. Bush, Barack Obama, and numerous other lawmakers.

Find his work in the Daily Dad, the Good Men Project, and many other publications.

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