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Christmas Wish List Grandad

What would be the most wonderful gift you could receive? What items do you desire your Christmas wish list that are not available in any catalog? A poem by Don Mathis.

A phone call from my son. He could put my grandchildren on the line and they could babble happily, and I would exclaim, “Is that right?” and “Really?” I would talk to my daughter-in-law for a bit, then put my son back on the line. And when it was time to hang up, he would be the first to say “I love you!”

A card for my birthday. When I was a kid, I would get cards from my grandparents, aunts and uncles, friends, and immediate family. Most of my extended family are dead and gone; no more cards and letters from them. It seems as my age increases, the recognition of my age decreases. Will I be remembered at all when I die?

The invincibility of youth, the assurance of immortality, the metabolism to consume three breakfast tacos every day (and not gain weight). I could stay up late, wake up early, and not get tired. My risk tolerance was low and my energy level was high.

The wisdom of my father. I miss his example of productivity, his advice on difficult decisions, and his encouragement to accomplish a task. Could that man in the mirror be a reflection of the lessons from my dad?

The way Christmas used to be. It was a time of innocence, a season of hopefulness, an era of possibility. Unless my memory is taking a holiday, there was less commercialism. The bounty of the food and the fellowship of extended family exuded thankfulness.

These desires remind me of the richness of my life.

___

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Don’s life revolves around the many poetry circles in South Texas. His poems have been published in a hundred periodicals and broadcasted on TV and radio. Don has written news and reviews for various media and countless editorials about fatherhood. His political correspondence has prompted personal replies from George W. Bush, Barack Obama, and numerous other lawmakers.

Find his work in the Daily Dad, the Good Men Project, and many other publications.

One Comment

  1. Jacques Doff December 24, 2025 at 9:11 pm - Reply

    do you know what’s great ? The new advertisement really reminds of just how plastic it all is. I had no relationship with my father, but what grudges he can teach me how to hold. I’m so glad bureaucracy took note of me last time and I get too see the new bullderdash ad. My father would have likely thrown the golf ball at me. Meeeerrrrry CHRISTMAS to poisoned environments as well.

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