• difference

    9 November, 2023

    What Angie and I are learning during this season is just how differently the two of us are wired. Motherly instinct is an incredibly powerful force, and this holds just as true for an adoptive mother as for a biological one.

    Kurt Mahlburg

  • morning

    6 November, 2023

    Fast forward to parenthood, and things have changed somewhat. I’ve become a reluctant morning person, but it’s had some surprising benefits.

    Annette Spurr

  • mums - motherhood

    30 October, 2023

    Last week, I wanted to quit. I have never felt quite so unqualified for a position. Drowning in failure and frustration. Last week was a tough week in my motherhood journey.

    Annette Spurr

  • letter to birth mother

    26 October, 2023

    Squish will always know the story about her birth mother and will always be free to ask questions about how it all began.

    Kurt Mahlburg

  • competitive

    23 October, 2023

    My kids are only 2 and 3 1/2 and, already, their competitive spirit is alive and well. I think it’s important to nurture it in a healthy way and teach them how to use it properly.

    Annette Spurr

  • bike

    16 October, 2023

    One day, I won’t be there to catch them, and I need for them to know how to dust themselves off and keep going.

    Annette Spurr

  • birth mother

    12 October, 2023

    As an adopted daughter myself and now a birth mother, I will always be an advocate for adoption. I want women to know that there is an option.

    Kurt Mahlburg

  • bedtime

    9 October, 2023

    Boys are more prone to separation anxiety than girls and struggle more with understanding that mama loves them and is coming back. Thus, the genuine, gut-wrenching cries both my boys have subjected me to at bedtime.

    Annette Spurr

  • look

    2 October, 2023

    What do you believe about your children? Are you speaking and acting in a way that will build and train the children that you really want?

    Annette Spurr

  • childrenese

    25 September, 2023

    Our children are, in many ways, strangers in the world of adults. They don’t speak our language particularly well – and we seem to have forgotten how to speak their language as we’ve aged.

    Annette Spurr

  • happy

    18 September, 2023

    I love this article, published by Time, to help parents like me make the most of these short years we have with our kids: "How to Have a Happy Family – 7 Tips Backed by Research".

    Annette Spurr

  • phone

    11 September, 2023

    I was checking emails on my phone the other day when, out of nowhere, something swooped by at lightning speed and ripped it out of my hands. They were so fast, I didn’t even see who it was.

    Annette Spurr

  • dishwasher

    4 September, 2023

    I find myself huffing in annoyance when sorting out his attempt to pack the dishwasher. He has seemingly not calculated the maximised available space-to-ickiness-of-surface ratio.

    Annette Spurr

  • tantrum

    28 August, 2023

    Before I had kids, I would have known exactly how to deal with this situation: Jack, my 2-year-old son, is crying for reasons known only to himself as we make our way through Woolworths. Tyson, my 3 1/2-year-old, is good as gold… until we reach the cleaning aisle, of all places. Ignoring Jack’s tears as best I can, I put a box of OMO laundry powder in the trolley. That was ...

    Annette Spurr

  • two

    21 August, 2023

    One of our readers, Joelle from Colorado, shared a photo of her son Chase looking very upset.  The reason?  Joelle wouldn’t paint his nails purple. It all went wrong for me recently when my son Jono was unable to carry each of the seven cars he had carefully selected for the four-minute drive to pick up his big sisters from school. He wouldn’t let me carry any, and he wouldn’t leave ...

    Annette Spurr

  • I am

    14 August, 2023

    A Mum Daily reader and new mum wrote to me: “I have to admit, no one can tell you what its like to be a new mum until you’ve been there. I had no idea. I have a dream baby, who only fusses when there is something wrong like hunger and gas. But it’s just this weird loss of identity and lonely feeling that I didn’t expect to feel.” Watching this ...

    Annette Spurr

  • children

    7 August, 2023

    Recently, we met some friends at a local area at Mermaid Beach called “The Marketta”. I had never been there before; Kylie had been a few times. We won’t take that any further… Anyway, it’s a fun place in an old industrial area, that has been outfitted with slightly alternative-style clothing and craft shops, and stalls with food from various countries and cultures around the world. Personally, I love culture and ...

    Annette Spurr

  • happy

    31 July, 2023

    A recent study has found that couples without kids are much happier in their marriage than those with kids. Should I be worried? Thankfully, the same study showed that mums were happiest of all, but dads were amongst the unhappiest — perhaps because of the strain parenting has put on their marriage. Nothing can really prepare you for how much life changes after your baby arrives: sleepless nights, the relentless advice ...

    Annette Spurr

  • night off

    17 July, 2023

    I’ve found a solution to my perceived marital problems: it’s easy, you can do this too. Have a night away with the man of your dreams (this is not a reference to Ryan Gosling). I’m talking about your husband – remember when you used to dream about him? It was right before you started washing his socks and reminding him where the laundry basket lives. One night away with my husband ...

    Annette Spurr

  • battles

    10 July, 2023

    As a parent, we have so many things to look after; Making sure our kids actually eat, then also making sure it’s something that will actually benefit them; Having somewhere to sleep, preferably in a bed — warm and dry is great; and then, of course, education in our Western culture, in particular, is fairly important. Do we really need to do all of this? On top of all of this, ...

    Annette Spurr

  • sandcastle

    12 June, 2023

    Absolute perfection. Blue sky, soft sand and inviting surf. Day 1 of our beach holiday, and all was well with the world. That was, until Tyson spotted the seemingly abandoned sandcastle. Front and centre, between the red and yellow flags on the busy foreshore. Instinct took over, and he did what any red-blooded 3-and-a-half-year-old would have done… he ran straight through the middle with complete, unadulterated excitement. Come on, what would ...

    Annette Spurr

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