Tony Miller

About Tony Miller

Tony Miller was awarded the Order of Australia Medal in the 2010 Queen's Birthday honors list 'For service to the community through the provision of support services for separated families'.
  • baby boy

It’s a Boy!

Dear Diary, IT’S A BOY! My beautiful daughter gave birth the other week to a beautiful boy, 8lb 3oz. I was supposed to speak in Parliament House at the Human Rights Conference about ‘DIDs’ that week. And you know what? Normally my work would take preference over my private life. That's possibly why I am now divorced. But this time I said no. My beautiful daughter and the birth of my ...

By |2021-09-01T13:27:49+10:00October 3rd, 2005|GRAND DADS, Babies, Dads, SINGLE DADS|0 Comments
  • no fear

Our Deepest Fear

In his 1994 inaugural speech, Nelson Mandela said: Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate, our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves: who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented and fabulous? Actually, who are you NOT to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small doesn't serve the world. ...

By |2021-09-11T10:27:07+10:00September 18th, 2005|SINGLE DADS, Children, FAITH|0 Comments
  • no contact

Sometimes I Just Need to Switch Off

Well here it is, Saturday morning, and Warwick rang me for my article and I had nothing prepared. I was wandering around a shopping centre not particularly looking for anything, just in a bit of a daze. You see, sometimes things just get the better of me, and sometimes I just switch off. An interview I had recorded with Southern Cross Ten State Focus was just aired today, which was just ...

By |2021-09-01T18:32:46+10:00September 11th, 2005|SINGLE DADS, Children, FAIRNESS & JUSTICE|0 Comments
  • Father's Day without dad

Lonely Father’s Day

I have just returned from Sydney, where we have opened several DIDs groups over the past couple of weeks. It never ceases to amaze me, the guys I meet along the way. Absolutely awesome dads who, although they struggle on a daily basis to see their kids and hold down a job, they volunteer some personal time to help other guys who may be struggling as well. It's awesome to see, ...

By |2021-09-01T18:37:04+10:00September 4th, 2005|SINGLE DADS, FAIRNESS & JUSTICE|0 Comments
  • mate-ship

Mateship

I was speaking at a DIDS meeting in rural New South Wales last night and I was commending the group for becoming real lifesavers in reaching out to each other in support. I told them that this country was once renowned for its mateship, and sadly I believe we have lost that somehow. We have lost the knowledge of what being a mate is all about. It is my belief that ...

By |2021-09-06T14:40:31+10:00August 21st, 2005|SINGLE DADS, FAITH, MENS HEALTH|0 Comments
  • law reform

Law Reform Lacks Representation

Below are just a few of the emails that I have been swamped with since sending out the notice of public hearings for Wednesday and Thursday, today. Many are from women. ALL are of disgust. Where is the representation from men's groups, you ask? Easy -- they obviously didn't want you there. DIDS received this notice today, and it was forwarded from a friend, not from the Attorney-General’s Department. The hearings ...

By |2021-09-11T11:14:50+10:00July 24th, 2005|SINGLE DADS, Children, FAIRNESS & JUSTICE, FAMILIES|0 Comments
  • sad guy

Sometimes It Just Gets Too Much

Firstly, I would like to thank all of you who contact me; it's your support and kindness that keeps me going. I was out on the town one night this past week. One of our volunteers is a muso, and he and his band were playing a gig in a local hotel. It was a great night, mainly because of the fact that a whole lot of our other volunteers turned ...

By |2021-09-01T13:24:21+10:00July 10th, 2005|SINGLE DADS, MENS HEALTH|0 Comments
  • attorney-general law reform

Delivering Dad Back to His Children

Wow, what a few weeks. Parkinson's Taskforce Release of suggested reforms, Four Corners, Fatherhood Forum 05, The Lonefathers Conference, the Attorney General's release of suggested reforms. Receiving a beautiful plaque from the Fatherhood Forum in Parliament House for our DIDs work.  My son telling me he is proud of me, my daughter sending me an email of how wonderful she thinks I am, doing the work I do. That she loves ...

By |2021-09-01T13:24:31+10:00July 3rd, 2005|SINGLE DADS, Children, Dads|0 Comments
  • dads

Delivering Dads Back to Their Children

In the coming weeks and months, we as mothers, fathers, children, grandparents and families await the Government’s answers to the proposed reforms within Family Law and within the Child Support Scheme. We have been waiting patiently, even though we have been experiencing the very same thing this grandmother (below) so graciously describes. We as responsible fathers have been supporting our children, and yet are denied the right to have a relationship ...

By |2021-09-01T17:58:26+10:00June 19th, 2005|Children, FAIRNESS & JUSTICE, SINGLE DADS|0 Comments
  • young man

Another Humble Lesson in Life

I was travelling through Queensland a few weeks ago opening new Dads in Distress groups, and was convening a meeting that was being held in the back of a new church that had been established in an industrial estate. It was a new meeting and so we didn't know what to expect, how many would turn up or what would happen. As I sat there at the back of this huge ...

By |2021-09-01T17:50:27+10:00June 12th, 2005|SINGLE DADS, Children, Dads, FAMILIES|0 Comments
Go to Top