September 2013

The Dad Dilemma

The Dad Dilemma is the title of an article in The Age about the challenges of child birth. Thea O’Connor, the writer, says, “Most Australian men are present and active at the birth of their children. But not everyone believes this is a good thing.” Having been present for the births of my five children, I quickly asked my wife for her opinion. She matter-of-factly stated, “You helped make the baby, ...

By |2021-05-18T13:27:42+10:00September 28th, 2013|Dads, Babies, NEW DADS, PREGNANCY & BIRTH|0 Comments

Gestures of Love – Fatherhood Poems

It is so hard to explain fatherhood and the many emotions it entails, but Andrew Lansdown, from Perth, has done a cracking job. His new book of poems called ‘Gestures of Love – the Fatherhood Poems’ is full of moments and emotions experienced by fathers the world over. Les Murray, arguably Australia’s greatest living poet, writes: “Many of Andrew Lansdown’s poems have to power to bless, to unsettle now with mysterious ...

By |2013-09-21T22:52:15+10:00September 21st, 2013|Dads|0 Comments

Fathers Finding Their Voice

On Australia’s federal election night (7 September 2013), I received an excited phone call from James Adams, one of the fathers behind Fathers4Equality. As I missed his call, he later expressed his thoughts in text: “Did you hear Abbott’s acceptance speech?  Of three aims he promised to support ‘our forgotten families’. F***king really great news! We have worked long and hard to protect children and return honesty and balance between the ...

By |2021-05-08T14:35:05+10:00September 14th, 2013|Dads, Other Topics, SINGLE DADS|2 Comments

Fatherhood and Explosive DNA

I can remember getting off the boat at Circular Quay, Sydney. I was 8 years old and my brother was 6 years old. My mother had 'taken' us away to Scotland because of marital disharmony, and we had lived with our grandmother for two years in Edinburgh. This was the second time. When I was young I thought all children lived with their grandmother and apart from their father. Normality is ...

By |2021-05-18T13:35:34+10:00September 7th, 2013|Dads, Children, FAMILIES, SINGLE DADS|0 Comments
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